Nosy Dog

Hey, what are you reading right now?

Hey, there! What are you reading? Huh? Huh? Let me see.

Were you one of those kids that couldn’t wait for the Summer Reading List to be posted at the library? Did you read all of the books in one week and beg your parents for more? Do you wish you had a grown-up reading list to tackle? Then we’ve got good news for our fellow book nerds.

We’re building our summer reading list and desperately need your help! Our plan is to create a list of Top 10 Business Beach Reads, so we can properly pack for our summer vacation. Holacracy” is coming out this week and we can’t wait to get our hands on it. Definitely going in the bag.

So, what else should we add to our reading list? We want to hear your ideas. Email Allison (allison@dumoerimprov.com) with the titles of your favorite business books by EOD Friday, June 5 & next week we’ll send out a compiled list of your top picks. Plus, we’ll choose a random winner from the emails and they’ll get a $50 Amazon gift card to kick-start their book shopping!

Feel free to throw in a few non-business books that you love, too. We look forward to hearing your recommendations. 🙂

Cheers,
Allison & Elizabeth

We can dream, right?

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Mad Men Meeting

Help! Will this meeting ever end?

How many times (this week!) have you sat through a meeting and wondered “when will this be over?”

We’ve done it at least 6 times already and it’s only Thursday! Which is why we’re bringing you a practical improv technique that few people talk about – ending the scene. Sure, we talk about clever ways to be brave and start something new. But what about wrapping it up? Here are a couple of things that we know are true about audiences (and meeting participants). They all want one of these 2 things to happen:

1) A good cliffhanger

2) A happy ending

The cliffhanger has an element of suspense that leaves you hungry for more action. In meeting terms, it means stating a quick recap of the meeting and then a clear list of action items. This gives the team something to focus on & enjoy accomplishing before the next session. So they’ll actually look forward to the next scene.

The happy ending is all about resolution. It’s the congratulations on a job well done, the finale of a detailed status update or a dance party for the last 5 minutes of the meeting. Wait, maybe that’s just how DuMore Improv does it. Either way, happy endings bring relief to the crowd who just sat through an exhausting hour of conflict or critical thinking. We promise, you’ll get a round of applause.

Remember, you can be a great scene ender whether you are the leader of a meeting or a participant asking questions that get you to a resolution. Next time you lead or attend a meeting (tomorrow?!), think about how you can help end the scene in a way that gives satisfaction to your audience. Don’t forget to practice your best ta-da bow!

And…scene.

This technique also works for parties. Thank you all for coming!

Cheers Leo

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How Emotionally Intelligent Are You?

Spring is the season of growth and there’s no better way to grow personally and professionally than to increase your emotional intelligence (also known as your EQ).

Last month, Allison was invited to participate in a weekly “Coach Chat” session moderated by Carolyn Bergman, Senior Director of Alumni Career Services at Emory University. Nearly 150 alumni signed up to attend “Enhance Your EQ with the Skills of Improv”. Here’s what you missed.

First, Allison defined EQ and explained how it fits into personal and professional development. Next, the group reviewed the core competencies of EQ — self-awareness, self-management, social awareness and relationship management. To wrap up the session, they reviewed strategies for increasing your emotional intelligence with improv skills and other techniques.

The best part of the webinar was the audience questions! Below is a snapshot of our 5 favorite Q&A moments.

5 FAVE QUESTIONS

1. What are the challenges in using EQ in the workplace?
Remembering to utilize. Part of self-awareness is to be present. So just thinking about self-awareness makes us more aware! However, you must also remember to be aware of what is happening around you and what is happening with others.
2. How do I enhance the EQ of my employees?
Expose them to the concept.  Introduce it to your team or colleagues through discussion, books, training, self-assessments and workshops. We can help with that.
3. How do I amplify my boss’s initiatives without looking like I’m kissing up?
Don’t just say “yes” to their ideas and leave it at that. Say “yes, and.” Take action on their ideas and build upon them.
4. How do I read my senior management team’s EQ?
The best way to read EQ is by observation, listening and being attuned to any of their emotional triggers and behavior. Notice how they respond in crises. That’s a key indicator.
5. How do I “observe myself” in the moment?
Remember to step back and allow sensory input to reach the rational part of your brain. Catch yourself in that moment when you are experiencing a certain emotion and ask, “why or what triggered that?”. Often we have a physical reaction to a certain emotion first – so be attuned to your own body and what it may be telling you about your emotional experience.

If you’d like to bring this Emotional Intelligence webinar to your group, email Allison at allison@dumoreimprov.com to set up a session. It’s great spring training for your team!

Well said, Chewbacca. A man(?) of few words with a high EQ.

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Give Us a Hug

Let’s gamestorm! Who’s in?

We’re so excited you’re here — we have big news! DuMore Improv is welcoming a fresh face to our team and announcing a brand new workshop. Bring it in, y’all.

First, we’d like to introduce you to our new facilitator, Jim Karwisch — check out his smiling mug at the bottom of this email. He’s a good friend, experienced improviser and amazing coach. Jim started improvising in 1991 and has been teaching improv since 2001. He worked for 13 years at a Fortune 500 financial institution, most recently as a Communications and Innovation specialist. Now he works full time as a coach and facilitator in Atlanta, GA and the Southeast. And we are super lucky to have him join our team because he’s brought us this…

Gamestorming! Whether you’ve worked with us before or are new to improv training, you’ll enjoy this eye-opening curriculum. Gamestorming with DuMore Improv lets your team examine challenges more deeply, explore new ideas, perform experiments and test hypotheses. Together we’ll generate surprising insights and results while infusing your team with energy and fun.

Here’s the magic. Gamestorming exercises help participants ditch the idea of “always doing things the same way” and learn new rules for interaction. Activities include questioning, structuring large diagrams, sketching ideas, fusing words and pictures together, and improvising — all designed to tackle a specific challenge and walk away with strategies to solve it.

We love talking about gamestorming (and Jim!) so drop a note to allison@dumoreimprov.com to learn more & find time for us to introduce this problem solving approach your team.

Let’s do this,
Allison & Elizabeth

Jim Karwisch

Meet Jim. Coming soon to a workshop near you.

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Say yes to something that scares you

Let’s take the leap into 2015 together! This year we hope to make our monthly emails more helpful by sharing rock-solid, real-life examples of how you can use improv skills at work and at home. And we hope you’ll share your experiences with us, too!

This month, we challenge you to say YES to something that scares you. Something that makes your heart beat fast and gives you butterflies in your stomach. A feat that feels like jumping off a cliff.

Last week, Elizabeth did something that’s been scaring her for 5+ years. She tried open mic improv poetry. Yes, it’s as scary as it sounds. Putting your name in a hat. Standing at a microphone in front of strangers. Asking for a topic. And blurting out a poem that you make up as you go. It was terrifying. And it was awesome. Like jumping into the deep end of the pool and making it to the side safely. Whew!

Doing something scary makes you feel alive. So try it this month. It can be as bold as sky diving or asking your boss for a raise. Or as simple as sending your dinner back to the kitchen because your steak wasn’t cooked right. It doesn’t matter what it is. As long as it makes you breathe a little faster and feel a whoosh of relief when it’s over.

Then contact us and let us know what you did that scared you, and how it felt. Or post a note on our Facebook page. Or tweet it @dumoreimprov. We don’t care. Just share the scare.

Be brave,
Allison & Elizabeth

Find Your Greatness

Hmmmmm. Is this what they mean by saying “yes, and”?

Ugly Christmas Sweater Party

6 Holiday Survival Tips from DuMore Improv

Merry Whatever! Awkward office parties, tense family festivities and the same list of New Year’s resolutions you’ve made for the last 10 years can make even the perkiest elf feel a little Grinchy. Save your holiday season with 6 improv survival techniques from the DuMore Improv gang.

DO say “yes, and” to unexpected holiday invitations.
DON’T feel obligated to attend your creepy co-worker’s “Pantsless Elf” party.

DO listen carefully to family & friends for clues about what they want for Christmas.
DON’T believe them when they say they don’t want anything. They do.

DO practice your presentation skills on Christmas morning.
DON’T bore your family with a PowerPoint presentation explaining your shopping strategy and expected ROI.

DON’T shut down new ideas for grandma’s gift this year.
DO steer the conversation in a new direction if it involves a trip to Victoria’s Secret.

DO clearly communicate your holiday wish list to your family & friends.
DON’T title your list “Stuff That’s Better Than the Junk You Usually Give Me”.

DO make good offers by donating to your favorite charities.
DON’T give money to a guy dressed as an elf with no pants. Even if he invites you to his party.

May your holiday season be merry and bright. And filled with improvised cheer!

SEE YOU IN THE NEW YEAR!
Allison & Elizabeth

Awkward Santa photo

The one time it’s okay to say “no, but”.

Cat Stevens costume

It’s time for a trick & a treat…

It’s that magical time of year when you’re forced to pull together the most-amazing-costume-ever at 9:23pm the night before Halloween. So we thought we’d help out this year with a Trick AND a Treat.

Here’s your trick. 4 simple steps for improvising a last-minute Halloween costume.

1) Hit the 24-hour grocery for black eyeliner, a headband and black construction paper.

2) Make cat ears with the headband and construction paper.

3) Draw whiskers on your face with eyeliner.

4) Brainstorm your favorite CAT word and add appropriate props. Grab the dictionary for some help. Think catatonic, catastrophe, catalytic converter, catalyst, cat litter and so on. Or just pick up your guitar & go as folk musician Cat Stevens! (see picture at top)

Now, here’s a treat. We compiled our survey results from last month and wanted to share the highlights — so you can see what’s on your colleagues’ minds these days.

Hot business topics that keep us up at night:

  • Disruption + new, smaller vendors upsetting the market
  • Using the Cloud for collaboration
  • Leadership, conflict and accountability

Newsletters & blogs we’re reading every week:

Favorite DuMore Improv workshops:

  • Storytelling for Business
  • Fearless Presentation Skills
  • Emotional Intelligence and Improv EQ

Get to work on your amazing cat costume. Then post your costume photos on our Facebook page to let us all know how it turned out. Meow!

STAY SCARY,
Allison & Elizabeth

Grumpy Cat costume

Don’t forget the classic Grumpy Cat costume.

August Sunday Summer

What I Like About August Is…

What I like about August is… savoring the last days of summer amidst the buzz of back-to-school time. August is all about making the most of the moment, while looking forward to learning new things.

So we thought now is the perfect time to teach you a new trick to help you embrace the end of summer. It’s one of our favorite improv games called “What I Like About That Is…”

Here’s how you play:

  1. Engage in conversation with someone. Anyone. Your friend, your kid, your co-worker, your coffee barista. Whoever is around.
  2. No matter what the other person says, start your reply with “what I like about that is…”
  3. Say (or just think to yourself) “what I like about that is…” every time you speak and see where the conversation takes you. Notice if the other person smiles and nods a bit more.
Here’s how it works:
  • Knowing that you are going to reply with “what I like about that is…” forces you to listen with a positive ear. So you turn off your hyper critical mind and only hear the good stuff.
  • When your conversation partner discovers that you like what they’re saying, you’ll connect and build an alliance. It feels good to have someone like your idea.
  • Instead of “what I like about that is…”, you can say other things like:
    • What I respect about that is…
    • What I appreciate that is…
    • What’s cool about that is…

Now go find out what you like about things! Drop us an email or say hello on Facebook to let us know how it’s going.

Forward this improv game to a friend, so they can learn to listen with a positive ear!

ENJOY AUGUST!
Allison & Elizabeth

Um, when does the pool close?

French Bulldog Pool

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The Million Dollar Improv Question

Summer’s officially here and it’s the perfect time to plan a team building event for your group. Curious how to convince your boss or leadership team that it’s a good idea? Send them these articles that prove it!

How to Think Better, Faster on Your Feet CNN.com

Can Executives Learn to Ignore the Script? The New York Times

Yes, And Improv Techniques to Make You a Better Boss Fast Company

Forget PowerPoint: Improv is the New (Old) Way to Sell Huffington Post

Need more help? We’re happy to hop on a call or set up a face-to-face to help you tell your story. And if all else fails, improvise!

P.S. Join us on Facebook for the Summer of Improv. New improv challenges every week!

CHEERS!
Allison & Elizabeth

Now, wait a minute. Was today the office improv off-site?

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3 cool things you’ve gotta do this month

Do you have a raging case of March Madness, Spring Fever or the Irish Flu (aka St. Patrick’s Day)? Here at DuMore Improv HQ we found 3 more things to get excited about this month. Add these items to the top of your to-do list for March.

1. Check out our new web site! The freshly refreshed DuMore Improv website now features workshop descriptions, pricing details and more. Be sure to share it with your friends and colleagues.

2. Register for the Southeast’s Interactive FestivalDIG South –  taking place April 9-13 in Charleston, SC. DuMore Improv is presenting our “So, What’s Your Story?” workshop about the art of storytelling for business. And we’re going to have a rockin’ refreshment booth in the concourse, a giant wall of innovation and new interactive activities every 30 minutes. Intrigued? We are too! If you are in the area, come hang out with us.

3. Book your fall workshops now! Our fall calendar is already filling up with higher ed orientation workshops and team building sessions. If you are considering a back-to-school or post-summer session, we’d love to get you on our schedule as soon as possible. Call or email us to discuss workshop topics and dates.

Okay, all done? Now you can go work on your NCAA bracket. AND, if you email us your pick for the #1 NCAA Championship winning team, anyone who gets it right will win a DuMore Improv March Madness prize pack! Just send us your name, mailing address & prediction for the final championship winning team.

HAPPY MARCH MADNESS!

Cheers, Allison & Elizabeth

Elizabeth & Allison working on their free throws!

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